1.1 Importance of Communication
Your ability to communicate clearly and share thoughts, feelings and ideas helps you in every relationship — at home, at school, and later at work. You may study any language, but you must be able to read, write, speak and listen well to communicate properly. Knowing more than one language helps you reach more people; English specifically helps you connect with a wider global audience.
- Inform — e.g., telling someone the time of a meeting.
- Influence — e.g., negotiating with a shopkeeper to reduce a price.
- Express feelings — e.g., showing that you are excited about your success or a new task.
1.2 Elements of Communication
Communication is a two-way process of sharing information — giving and receiving. Speaking and writing are ways of giving information; reading and listening are ways of receiving it.
1.3 Perspectives in Communication
Perspectives are ideas, views, or fixed ways of thinking that sometimes affect how we send or receive a message. For example, if you have a fixed idea that your teacher is strict, even a friendly comment may sound like scolding. Others may also have fixed ideas about you that colour whatever you say.
Factors Affecting Perspectives (Communication Barriers)
| Factor | How it becomes a barrier |
|---|---|
| Language | Wrong words, unfamiliar language, too much detail. Example: a Hindi speaker and a Mandarin speaker cannot talk directly. |
| Visual Perception | Judging people by how they look — e.g., "a man in torn clothes must be poor". |
| Past Experience | Earlier bad experience blocks understanding — "This shopkeeper cheated me last time, let me be careful". |
| Prejudice | Fixed negative idea — "No one in my class listens to me" — stops a student from speaking up. |
| Feelings | Lack of interest or distrust affects communication — "I am sad, let me not talk". |
| Environment | Noise or distraction in surroundings — e.g., speaking while walking on a noisy road. |
| Personal factors | Fear, low confidence, nervous habits make communication difficult. |
| Culture | A sign may mean different things in different cultures — a "thumbs up" is praise for some, insulting for others. |
1.4 Effective Communication — The 7 Cs
Effective communication follows seven professional principles known as the 7 Cs.
1.5 Three Methods of Communication
Verbal
Communicating using words — spoken or written.Non-verbal
Communicating without words — through body language and tone.Visual
Communicating through pictures, signs and symbols.📣 Verbal Communication
Verbal communication is the sharing of information using words. It is the most commonly used method and has two main forms — oral (spoken) and written.
| Type | Examples |
|---|---|
| Oral / Spoken Communication that involves talking | Face-to-face conversation, group discussion, public speech, classroom teaching, business meeting, phone call. |
| Written Communication that involves written or typed words | Letters and notes on paper, SMS text messages, e-mail (to one person or to a group), printed books, newspapers. |
✅ Advantages
- Easy and quick — you say it and get a quick response.
- Best for exchanging ideas in real time.
- You can keep adjusting your message based on the other person's reply.
❌ Disadvantages
- Meaning can become confusing if the right words are not used.
- Spoken words have no permanent record.
- Depends heavily on the listener's attention and understanding.
🎤 Public Speaking — The 3 Ps
Speaking in front of a large group makes most people nervous. Use the 3 Ps method — Prepare, Practise, Perform — to become a confident speaker.
Think about your topic, your listeners, and the best way to explain. Write what you plan to say.
Practise alone, in front of a mirror, then family / friends. Speak clearly, loudly, at the right speed.
Take a few deep breaths if nervous; think of what you practised and speak confidently.
🤲 Non-verbal Communication
Non-verbal communication is the message we send to others without using any words — through expressions, gestures, postures and voice control. It often makes the verbal message stronger (or contradicts it).
Importance of Non-verbal Communication
- Right gestures and postures help you appear professional at work.
- Good gestures while speaking make your message more effective.
- Reading the audience's reactions helps you adjust your communication on the fly.
- When verbal messages are blocked by noise or distance, non-verbal signals can still carry meaning (a finger on the lips → silence; nodding → yes).
Types of Non-verbal Communication
| Type | What it implies | How to use effectively |
|---|---|---|
| 😊 Facial Expression | Shows feelings — happiness, sadness, anger, surprise, fear. | Smile when you meet someone; keep face relaxed; match expression with what you are saying. |
| 🧍 Posture | Body position — shows confidence and attitude. | Keep upper body relaxed, shoulders straight; sit upright; hands by your sides while standing. |
| 👋 Gestures / Body Language | Hand and head movements — waving, pointing, nodding. Biting nails shows nervousness. | Avoid pointing at people; bend head slightly while listening to show attention. |
| 🤝 Touch | Handshake, pat on the back — shows confidence, encouragement. | Shake hands firmly; avoid other touch gestures during formal communication. |
| ↔️ Space | The physical distance between two people. | Maintain proper space — closer with family, more distance in formal settings. |
| 👀 Eye Contact | Shows interest, confidence or anger. Looking away makes the other person feel ignored. | Look at the speaker; keep a relaxed, pleasant look; break eye contact every few seconds. |
| 🎚️ Paralanguage | The way we speak — tone, speed, volume — changes the meaning of words. | Use a proper tone and volume; maintain a moderate speed of talking. |
Don'ts: intense staring, scratching head, biting nails, slouching, yawning while listening, clenching jaws, looking away while someone speaks.
🖼️ Visual Communication
Visual communication sends and understands messages only through images, signs or symbols. Its biggest advantage is that you don't need to know a specific language — the meaning is simple, easy and remains the same across places and cultures.
Common Examples of Visual Communication
2.1 What is a "Communication Style"?
A communication style is the way a person expresses themselves — combining verbal choices (words, tone) with non-verbal cues (posture, expression). The style you pick controls how clearly your message lands and how the other person feels after the conversation. Using the right style makes communication more effective — others understand you better and respond in a better way.
2.2 The Four Main Communication Styles
⚡ Aggressive
Winning at any cost — not respecting others, shouting, using strong language, dismissing or insulting others.🤐 Passive / Submissive
Avoiding conflict, giving others control, losing self-respect — keeping quiet, accepting wrong remarks, saying sorry even when not at fault.🎭 Passive-Aggressive
Trying to get your way indirectly — not doing a task and lying about it, talking ill behind someone's back, silent resentment.💬 Assertive
Respecting others and yourself — expressing views clearly, listening to others, saying "no" without hurting anyone.Side-by-Side Comparison
| Style | Means | Examples | Result |
|---|---|---|---|
| Aggressive | Winning at any cost, not respecting others. | Not caring about others' views; shouting; insulting; not listening. | Ill-feeling, anger, breakdown of communication. |
| Passive / Submissive | Avoiding conflict, losing self-respect. | Keeping quiet; accepting wrong remarks; saying sorry for no mistake. | Hurt feelings, loss of confidence, misunderstandings. |
| Passive-Aggressive | Getting your way without taking responsibility. | Indirect anger, not doing a task and lying, speaking ill in absence. | Does not get results; bad feelings all round. |
| Assertive | Respecting others and maintaining self-respect. | Expressing yourself while listening; understanding others' views; disagreeing without hurting. | Effective communication — both sides understand each other. |
2.3 Assertive Communication — 7 Actions to Practise
📵 Saying "NO" — Refusal Skills
Refusing a request without upsetting others is one of the key parts of assertive communication. Let's understand why it is difficult, when it is needed, and how to do it politely.
❓ Why it is difficult to say "no"
- You may not want to make the other person upset or angry.
- You may not want to start an argument or seem unhelpful.
- You may not want to be left out of a group or team.
✅ When it is important to say "no"
- When you cannot do what is being asked.
- When you do not want to do what is being asked.
- When it is against the rules or your own values.
🎯 The AEIOU Model — Remember the five vowels
| Step | Meaning | What to say |
|---|---|---|
| A | Ask questions to check how important the task really is. | "Why do we need to leave early?" / "Why can't you do it yourself?" |
| E | Engage with a polite opening statement. | "I would like to help you, but…" / "I'd be glad to, but…" |
| I | Include a reason — explain your feelings or your situation. | "I can't come because I have my own homework to finish." |
| O | Offer another option — a different time, place or person. | "Can we go after school instead?" / "I can help you with yours after mine." |
| U | Thank the person for Understanding. | "Thank you for understanding." / "Thanks for agreeing to my suggestion." |
🔗 Connecting Words (Conjunctions) — used in "no" sentences
Small words such as and, but, or, so, because join two sentences together. They appear very often when we refuse something politely.
| Conjunction | Use | Example |
|---|---|---|
| AND | Connects two words or sentences of equal importance. | "No, my brother and I won't be able to come." |
| BUT | Joins two sentences that suggest different ideas. | "I would love to come to your party, but I can't because of other plans." |
| OR | Shows a choice between two words or sentences. | "No, you can go with Dia or Ali." |
| SO / AS / BECAUSE | Joins two sentences where one is a reason for the other. | "I have a meeting, so I can't come." / "I can't come because I am busy." |
3.1 Sentence and Phrase
3.2 Using Capitals — the MINTS Rule
It is easy to remember when to use capital letters — just think of the word MINTS.
| Letter | Stands for | Rule | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
| M | Months | Capitalise the first letter in names of months. | I will go to college in June. |
| I | the word "I" | Capitalise the letter "I" when it is used as a word. | Every day, I play tennis with him. |
| N | Names | Capitalise first letter in names of people, places and days. | This Tuesday, Vidya will be in Rajasthan. |
| T | Titles | Capitalise titles used before people's names. | Dr Shah and Mr Patel work together. |
| S | Starting | Capitalise the first letter of every sentence. | The cat ran out of the house. |
3.3 Punctuation
Punctuation marks help separate the parts of a sentence and explain its meaning.
| Name | Sign | Use | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
| Full stop | . | Ends a sentence; also marks short forms of long words (titles). | This is a sentence. / Dr Sanjay. |
| Comma | , | Shows a pause; separates three or more listed items. | I bought apples, oranges and grapes. |
| Question mark | ? | Ends a question. | What is your name? |
| Exclamation | ! | Shows a strong feeling — surprise, shock, anger. | What a pleasant surprise! |
| Apostrophe | ' | Shows possession; also short form — "isn't" = "is not". | Divya's pen / Let's go. |
3.4 Parts of Speech — Basic Five
The different types of words we use in sentences are called parts of speech. The five basic ones are noun, pronoun, adjective, verb and adverb.
| Part | What it does | Example sentence | Example words |
|---|---|---|---|
| 📛 Noun | Names a person, place, thing or idea — "naming word". | Reema wrote a letter. | dog, kindness, India, Sanjay |
| 🔁 Pronoun | Used in place of a noun. | Reema wrote a letter. She is tired. | I, they, he, you |
| 🎨 Adjective | Describes another word (noun). | Reema wrote a long letter. | small, blue, sharp, loud |
| 🏃 Verb | Shows an action. | Reema wrote a letter. | run, eat, think, sit |
| ⚡ Adverb | Adds meaning to a verb/adjective. Answers how? how often? when? where? | Reema quickly wrote a letter. | easily, always, inside, before |
3.5 Supporting Parts of Speech
Besides the five main parts of speech, we use four supporting word types to glue sentences together.
| Type | Use | Example |
|---|---|---|
| 📖 Articles | The words a, an and the — usually used before nouns. • An before a vowel sound (a,e,i,o,u) • A before a consonant sound • The for a specific thing | The car stopped because a cat ran in front. / An apple. / An umbrella. |
| 🔗 Conjunctions | Join two nouns, phrases or sentences. Common: and, or, but, so, because. | Sheela and I went to the market. / I have a meeting, so I can't come. |
| 📍 Prepositions | Connect words to show relation — answer "where / when / how?". Common: on, at, in, under. | The cat is on the roof. / The shop is at the end. / Rahul stands under the tree. |
| ❗ Interjections | Express strong emotion — happiness, surprise, anger, pain. End with an exclamation mark. | Wow! / Oh! / Oh no! / Thanks! / Help! |
3.6 Parts of a Sentence — Subject, Verb, Object
Almost all English sentences have a subject and a verb; some also have an object.
Subject
The person or thing that performs the action.Verb
The word that describes the action.Object
The person or thing that receives the action.Examples
| Sentence | Subject | Verb | Object |
|---|---|---|---|
| I ate an apple. | I | ate | an apple |
| He cooked dinner. | He | cooked | dinner |
| She kicked the football. | She | kicked | the football |
| Dia and Sanjay broke the bottle. | Dia and Sanjay | broke | the bottle |
🎯 Direct & Indirect Objects
A direct object is directly acted on by the verb. An indirect object answers "to whom" or "for whom" the action is done.
| Sentence | Verb | Direct object (what?) | Indirect object (to whom?) |
|---|---|---|---|
| Reema bought vegetables. | bought | vegetables | — |
| He offered me a chocolate. | offered | chocolate | me |
| The teacher gave us homework. | gave | homework | us |
3.7 Active and Passive Voice
✅ Active Voice
The subject does the action. Example: Sanjay broke the glass.🔄 Passive Voice
The subject receives the action. Example: The glass was broken by Sanjay.More Examples
| Active Voice | Passive Voice |
|---|---|
| She wrote a letter. | A letter was written by her. |
| He opened the door. | The door was opened by him. |
| Mohan played the flute. | The flute was played by Mohan. |
3.8 Four Types of Sentences (by purpose)
📝 Declarative
Provides information or states a fact. Ends with "."Example: It is very cold.
❓ Interrogative
Asks a question. Ends with "?"Example: How is the weather?
😮 Exclamatory
Expresses a strong emotion. Ends with "!"Example: Oh, it's so cold!
📢 Imperative
Gives an order, command, request or advice. Ends with "." or "!"Example: Wear your sweater.
3.9 Paragraph Construction
Structure of a Good Paragraph
Introduces the main idea of the paragraph in one clear line.
Add details, examples, facts and explanations that back up the topic.
Sums up or wraps up the main idea of the paragraph.
Paragraph 1 (facts): I go to Government Higher Secondary School, Balachadi. It is not a very big school, but it has many good teachers. There are about 100 students. My school is on the main road, very close to the city Railway Station.
Paragraph 2 (opinion): I love going to school and learning new things. My school has a small playground where I play cricket with my friends after class. It has a library also. I love my school.
A.1 Pronunciation Basics (Handbook Session 4)
Letters vs Sounds
The English alphabet has 26 letters (A–Z), but we use more than 26 sounds when we speak English. That is why a word's spelling does not always match its pronunciation.
Example — the letter "a" is pronounced differently in different words:
| Words | Pronunciation of "a" |
|---|---|
| cat, apple, back | short "a" |
| car, fast, park | long "a" |
| call, ball, saw | "aw" sound |
Three Types of Sounds in English
Vowels
5 vowel letters (a, e, i, o, u) — but 12 vowel sounds. One vowel letter = one vowel sound in a word.e.g., "bit"
Diphthongs
Combination of two vowel sounds starting as one and moving to another.e.g., "house" (ou sound)
Consonants
Any sound that is neither vowel nor diphthong. Formed with tongue, teeth, lips.e.g., "pot" (p and t)
Example Words
| Vowel sound | Examples | Diphthong | Examples | Consonant | Examples |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| long "ee" | sleep, keep, feel | "ea" | near, dear, hear | "p" | pen, report, stop |
| short "i" | slip, dip, fill | "ae" | late, cake, game | "t" | train, story, put |
| short "u" | book, put, foot | "oa" | boat, loan, most | "k" | book, cold, music |
| long "oo" | boot, group, two | "ou" | mouth, cow, cloud | "l" | look, place, school |
A.2 Greetings and Introduction (Handbook Session 9)
Greetings change depending on who you are talking to and the time of day.
💼 Formal Greetings
Used with people you don't know, seniors, elders, teachers, customers — schools, offices, meetings.
| Good morning, Sir! | Good morning, everyone! |
| Hello Sir. How are you? | Very well. Thank you. How are you? |
👋 Informal Greetings
Used with friends, family or people you know very well.
| Hey! | Hi! / Hello! |
| Hey! How are you doing? | Hi! I am doing great! |
Greetings According to Time of Day
| Time | Greeting |
|---|---|
| Early morning to 11:59 am | Good morning |
| 12 pm to about 5 pm | Good afternoon |
| 5 pm to midnight | Good evening ("Good night" is only at the end of a conversation) |
Introducing Yourself and Others
Tell your name, then general info — hometown, job/subjects, interests. Look at the other person and smile.
To introduce someone else, tell their name, what they do, how you know them, or an interesting detail.
A.3 Talking About Self (Handbook Session 10)
| Field | Example sentences |
|---|---|
| Name | I am Harish Sethi. · My name is Anu. |
| What they do | I am a student. · I play cricket. · I practise karate. |
| Age | I am 15 years old. · I will be 17 soon. |
| Hometown | I live in Mumbai. · I am from Goa. |
| Likes | I like swimming. · I like music. |
| Dislikes | I dislike summers. · I do not like loud noise. |
| Strengths | I am a good public speaker. · I can write stories very well. |
| Weaknesses | I get angry easily. · I cannot manage my time properly. |
Filling a Form
A form has blank spaces for personal info. Read it before filling. Write neatly and use correct spellings.
| Field | Meaning |
|---|---|
| Name | First, middle (if any) and surname. |
| Date of Birth | Date when you were born — day / month / year. |
| Address | Postal address — house number, street, area, city. |
| PIN Code | Numbers used by the post office to identify a region. |
| Signature | Your name / initials written by hand in a unique style. |
A.4 Asking Questions (Handbook Session 11)
🔒 Close-ended Questions
Answered with yes / no. Answer options are closed / limited.Example: "Are you hungry?" → Yes / No.
Formed by adding helping verbs (be, do, have, can, may, should) before the subject — or exchanging subject and verb positions.
🔓 Open-ended Questions
Need more detail as an answer. Answer options are open.Example: "What would you like to eat?" → "An apple / mango / anything".
Formed using question words: What · Why · Who · How · When · Where.
Examples
| Sentence | Close-ended question |
|---|---|
| I cook dinner. | Do I cook dinner? |
| She can cook dinner. | Can she cook dinner? |
| You can help me. | Can you help me? |
| They were cleaning their room. | Were they cleaning their room? |
| Open-ended question | Answer |
|---|---|
| What did you do? | I went to the park. |
| Why did you go there? | I went to meet my friend. |
| How did you go? | I cycled. |
A.5 Talking About Family (Handbook Session 12)
Names for Relatives (English)
- Mother + Father = Parents.
- Parents of parents = Grandparents (Grandfather + Grandmother).
- Sisters of father / mother = Aunts.
- Brothers of father / mother = Uncles.
- Children of aunts / uncles = Cousins.
- Family of your husband / wife = in-laws (brother-in-law, sister-in-law, father-in-law, mother-in-law).
Possessive Adjectives — Show Relation or Ownership
| Word | Meaning | Example |
|---|---|---|
| my | Belongs to / related to me | My mother is a teacher. |
| your | Belongs to / related to you | Where is your sister? |
| his | Belongs to / related to him | His cousin plays cricket. |
| her | Belongs to / related to her | She loves her father. |
| its | Belongs to / related to it | The baby is looking for its mother. |
| our | Belongs to / related to us | Our grandparents live in Simla. |
| their | Belongs to / related to them | Parents take care of their children. |
Also use 's (apostrophe + s) on a noun to show ownership — e.g., father's sister, Ravi's house, Mr Sharma's uncle.
A.6 Describing Habits and Routines (Handbook Session 13)
Adverbs of Frequency
Words that show how often something happens — useful when describing habits and routines.
| Type | Examples | Sentence |
|---|---|---|
| Regular activities | always, daily, weekly, yearly | I go to the temple weekly. |
| Irregular activities | sometimes, often, rarely, seldom, never | I sometimes go to the temple. |
Priya's habits (adverbs of frequency): "I always oil and comb my hair." · "I sometimes forget to finish my homework." · "I never miss school."
Frequency order (most → least): Always → Generally / Usually → Often → Sometimes → Rarely / Seldom → Never.
A.7 Asking for Directions (Handbook Session 14)
How to Ask Politely
- Start with "Excuse me" or a greeting.
- Ask clearly for the place — landmark, area, street or office.
| Polite phrase |
|---|
| Excuse me, can you please tell me the way to the National Bank? |
| Excuse me, which way is the railway station? |
| Do you know the way to the Gandhi National Museum? |
Giving Directions — Landmarks and Prepositions
Use well-known landmarks (bus stand, lake, bridge, big office, school) plus prepositions of position — on, near, opposite, in front of, across, behind.
Thanking the Person Who Helped
| Phrase | When to use |
|---|---|
| Thank you | Polite way to thank anyone. |
| Thanks | More casual — only with friends / family. |
| I appreciate that | Another polite way to thank. |
| I really appreciate that | When someone goes out of their way to help. |
When someone thanks you, reply with "You're welcome" or "Welcome".
Quick Revision — Key Points to Remember
- Communication = sharing information to reach common understanding (Latin commūnicāre = "to share").
- Elements: Sender → Message → Channel → Receiver → Feedback.
- 8 barriers: Language, Visual perception, Past experience, Prejudice, Feelings, Environment, Personal, Culture.
- 7 Cs: Clear · Concise · Concrete · Correct · Coherent · Complete · Courteous.
- 3 Methods: Verbal (words – oral / written), Non-verbal (body, tone), Visual (signs, symbols).
- Non-verbal types: Expression, Posture, Gestures, Touch, Space, Eye contact, Paralanguage.
- 3 Ps of public speaking: Prepare → Practise → Perform.
- 4 communication styles: Aggressive · Passive/Submissive · Passive-Aggressive · Assertive (best).
- 7 assertive actions: Be confident · Speak clearly · Dress correctly · Be honest · Not aggressive · Speak up · Say No.
- Why it's hard to say no: fear of upsetting others, starting an argument, being left out.
- When to say no: can't do it · don't want to do it · against rules / your values.
- AEIOU model for saying No: Ask → Engage → Include reason → Offer option → thank for Understanding.
- Connecting words: AND (equal) · BUT (contrast) · OR (choice) · SO/BECAUSE (reason).
- Sentence vs Phrase: sentence = complete thought; phrase = incomplete group of words.
- MINTS capitalisation: Months · "I" · Names · Titles · Starting letter.
- 5 punctuation marks: "." "," "?" "!" "'".
- 5 basic parts of speech: Noun · Pronoun · Adjective · Verb · Adverb.
- 4 supporting parts: Articles (a/an/the) · Conjunctions · Prepositions · Interjections.
- Sentence parts: Subject + Verb + Object (direct / indirect).
- Voice: Active (subject acts) vs Passive (subject receives).
- 4 sentence types: Declarative · Interrogative · Exclamatory · Imperative.
- Paragraph: Topic sentence → Supporting sentences → Concluding sentence.